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Marriage and starting a family

Protecting the people who depend on you

When your spouse and children depend on your income, your plan has to protect them if you die or cannot work. We work out the cover you need, help you draw up wills that name guardians for your children, and plan how to save for their education.

Last reviewed 30 September 2026

What we cover

Your checklist

  • Life cover sized to your family

    Enough to clear debts and replace your income for your family, worked out with a needs analysis.

    Life cover

  • Disability and income protection

    For both partners, so the household still has an income if one of you cannot work.

    Disability and income protection

  • Severe illness cover

    A lump sum if you are diagnosed with a serious illness, to cover costs your medical aid will not.

    Severe illness cover

  • Wills that name guardians

    Up-to-date wills for both of you, naming guardians and, if needed, a testamentary trust.

    Wills and trusts

  • Education savings

    A monthly plan for your children’s school and university costs, started early.

    Unit trusts and share portfoliosTax-free savings account (TFSA)

  • Medical aid for a growing family

    A plan that covers pregnancy, birth and young children.

    Medical aid

Questions

Common questions

These answers are general. How they apply to you depends on your circumstances.

How much life cover do we need?

Enough to pay off your debts, cover the costs that come with a death, and replace the income your family would lose, for as long as they would need it. The right figure is different for every family, so we calculate it with a needs analysis rather than a multiple of your salary.

In or out of community of property: does it matter?

Yes. Your marriage system affects who owns what, what happens if one of you has debt, and how things are divided if the marriage ends or one of you dies. If you want to marry out of community of property, you need an antenuptial contract, signed in front of a notary before the wedding.

Who looks after our children if something happens to us?

The person you name as guardian in your will. Without one, a court decides. Talk to the person first, and name a back-up.

What happens to money our children inherit?

If a child under 18 inherits and there is no trust, the money is usually paid into the Guardian’s Fund, run by the Master of the High Court. A testamentary trust, set up in your will, lets people you trust manage the money for your children until an age you choose.

How should we save for school and university?

Start early with a monthly debit order, even a small one, because it spreads the cost over more years. Common options include unit trusts and tax-free savings accounts. The right mix depends on when you will need the money and how much you can put away.

Should we check our medical aid before having a baby?

Yes. Medical aid schemes can apply waiting periods to new members and to plan changes, so organise your cover before you start trying for a baby, not after.

How it works

A free call, a written plan and a yearly review

How we work

Free tool

How much life cover does my family need?

A range for the extra life cover your family might need, from what they would need less what is already in place.

Open the tool

Your planner

Our planners

These planners look after clients at this stage of life.

  • Mark Elstob

    Financial planner and Key Individual · CFP®, PGDip Financial Planning (UFS), BCom (University of Natal)

    Specialises in: Retirement, Family, Wealth & offshore, Legacy

    Talk to Mark
  • Kirsten Marwick

    Financial planner · National Certificate: Wealth Management (NQF 5)

    Specialises in: Family

    Talk to Kirsten

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Talk to a planner

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